Thursday, June 4, 2009

Wet Cronctete makes quite a mess...of a friendship.

So we had a less than perfect trip to our dear friends house yesterday and on the way home Jacey tells me crying, "Going to Jills house was not delightful, because Lucas stepped in the concrete." It was pretty funny. So yes, the trip was not delightful, I told them if they couldn't stay out of the concrete (freshly laid sidewalk project they took all day doing and just finished) we would have to leave. So we talked about how sad it would make everyone if they touch it and about 30 minutes later Lucas stepped on it. AND guess what, it made everybody really sad. LUCKILY it was in a spot that was still wet enough to fix however that didn't stop the frustration from pouring out of me. We all anticipated it happening but hoped that it wouldn't. Those who were doing the fixing were gracious and didn't say much even though I know how frustrating that was for them. So to follow through on my threat of having to leave, we had to leave. I was really sad that I trusted him to remember and that it had to be him who did the damage. I asked him in the car why he stepped on the wet concrete and he didn't know, I said, "did you forget?" and he so sad and sweet said, "yeah." So really it was my fault for not preventing the whole thing. So I felt dramatic that I was leaving crying (frustrated with myself and my kids) and I felt awkward and sorry that we made them worry and fix their hard work after they JUST finished it. Later Jill came over with a banana cream pie blizzard (my favorite) and we smoothed things over, they were kind and generous the whole way and it just proves what good friends they are. I thought it to myself a few days ago before this happened(after another nice thing Jill did for someone else) that Jill is a better friend than I am and this just confirms it. Thanks for forgiving us so willingly and we're sorry we stepped in it big time!! :)

9 comments:

Bowles said...

Oh, that must have been a fun day. I am so sorry that happened. I am so glad you have such a wonderful friend in Jill. I hope you get a nice break when Justin gets home. Let me know if you need to go test drive some cars with me.
Have a better day today!

Anderson Zoo Keepers said...

And I wasn't much fun because we were having our own tragedy. Sorry. What a bummer of a night. We'll have to do it again and actually have a fun blown BBQ.

Zach said...

Sorry it wasn't fun, maybe you can make a FHE lesson out of it somehow, like the oranges! "You don't come back from concrete golashes, Lukey"
My verification word is "Apstiogs"...

Kirk and Jill Smith - said...

Oh, it wasn't a big deal!!! I'm glad everything worked out ok, just sad Lucas had to get in trouble. :( You're the greatest, and just as great of a friend, but thanks for making me feel good. Love ya!

The Tanner Family said...

Jennis, you are too hard on yourself. You are a good friend. Sounds like it was a rough night. I am sorry! Things happen though and I am glad they were able to fix it.

Taylor, Wendy, & Kids said...

Jennis,
So good to hear from you. Your kids are absolutly adorable. We are doing good. Hope all is well at your end. Keep in touch. Wendy

mamaseversike said...

Well, gosh, as I go from kid to kid my heart breaks afresh for each one of you. Amanda moving/crashing/enduring, Ranie about to pop and smiling so sweetly/enduring, Jenna sleep-deprived and selflessly giving, giving, giving/enduring, Zach making a new life/enduring, Emily working, working, working/enduring, Joni keeping up with 4 kids, a garden, training/enduring, and Jennis single parenting all week with one of the most trying 2 year olds on the planet/enduring. Lucas is following in the footsteps of his mother, about whom I used to say, "I have got to channel all this energy and determination correctly, because she is going to either be a great force for righteousness or something else entirely." I'm so thankful you are totally the first option. I used to think you had the cutest, most kissable neck in the whole wide world, and then 10 seconds later wonder if you'd live to see 3. Hang on to those sparks of sweetness we've seen lately, he really is showing glimmers of making through the other side of these terrible, horrible, no-good, awful, really bad twos. You're doing all the right things. Just breathe.
PS Jill is the friend we all wish we had. Aren't you lucky?

Brittany said...

So I'm a little slow, I just found that you have been leaving comments on my blog...sorry about that. I think this will help us keep in touch better too.
I think I would be pretty upset too if my child stepped in concrete. Pretty cool of your friend to let you know everything is ok. Did Justin tell you that we are moving back to Nampa?

Kristen said...

Oh the joys of motherhood. HAVING to follow thru because you said that is what the consequence would be. Sometimes I hate having to be the adult. I just want to play and not have any responsibility sometimes.